Meet with intention.
Filltr is a dating app for gay and bisexual men who want to say what they are here for — built in Europe, private by default, calm by design.
Only on Filltr
Intention modes
Flip a switch and the whole app aligns with what you want right now. People in incompatible modes simply do not cross your path — no awkward mismatch, no explaining yourself.
Direct
You know what you are looking for and you would like it to be soon. Direct mode connects you with guys on the same page — clear, honest, zero games.
Gentle
Conversations first, plans later. Gentle mode slows the pace, blurs the thirst traps, and surfaces guys who want to actually talk.
Everything you need. Nothing watching you.
Guys nearby, on a calm grid
A clean proximity grid with approximate distance only — never your exact location. Filter by what actually matters to you.
A local feed that expires
Posts from guys around you disappear after 24 hours. What is happening tonight, not a highlight reel from last summer.
Chat that feels alive
Voice messages, GIFs, reactions, replies — fast, unfiltered, and moderated for safety, not for tone policing.
Photos on your terms
Expiring photos with a viewing window. Private albums you can un-share at any moment — revoked means gone, not "hidden".
Comfort you control
Gentle mode softens the feed: suggestive photos arrive blurred until you decide. Explicit content never reaches the feed at all.
Certified, timestamped photos
Optional photo certification stamps when a picture was actually taken — fewer decade-old torsos, more real faces.
Privacy is the product
Dating apps know the most intimate things about you. We built Filltr so that knowledge stays between you and the people you choose.
Hosted in the EU, owned by us
Your profiles, photos, and messages live on Filltr’s own servers in Germany — never in a third-party app cloud. No data brokers, GDPR by architecture — not by checkbox.
Tracking is opt-in. Really.
Analytics are off until you say otherwise. No advertising ID is ever collected. Your usage is not a product.
Your data, your exit
Export everything you have shared or delete your account — including your photos, messages, and voice notes — right from the app.
Looked after, not policed
Block and report tools that act fast, a safety team that reads every report, and real health resources — including a city-level finder for HIV and STI testing across Europe.
Filltr Premium
See everyone. Be seen by no one.
Who viewed you, who liked your posts, unlimited browsing, incognito, travel mode, and more — one subscription, no ad tier, cancel anytime.
Compare Free vs PremiumOne community, clear rules
Respect is not optional here. Read our Community Guidelines — they are short, human, and enforced.